By: Ransi Samarasinghe
“Sometimes breakups are mutual, sometimes they are not.”
These are some bad behaviors of a guy which could take her to end up the relationship.
1. If you boast too much
You may always talk with excessive pride and self satisfaction about your achievements, possessions or abilities to make her proud to have you, but it could guide your relationship to the end. If you talks about yourself and your ex girlfriends all the time and ask few questions about her or never wants to hear about her, do you believe that she’s comfortable with you? Obviously it’s not. She will definitely feel that you are not into her and it creates another reason to avoid you. When you boast about you all the time, she understands that you are too much in love with yourself to ever fall for someone else. If boyfriend certainly never offers to her a compliment, an attention, affection; it makes her feel empty in your bondage, and it could be the end of the relationship. If she really loves you, she feels lucky to have you, so you don’t have to make an effort to prove that all the time.
2. If you always behave like a child
“There is a child inside each one of us, who comes out in front of the person we are most comfortable with’-unknown-
“But not always”, She wants you to be supportive by being available; listening attentively and showing your interest in the things she has to tell you. If you always seek her attention without concentrate about her needs, she’s definitely fed up of your childish behavior. You have to help strengthen the sense of security and reciprocity in the relationship; otherwise she may feel insecure to be with you. She doesn’t want you to be stubborn, to be irresponsible, to be clingy, to be selfish, to shout over stupid things, to get jealous easily, to compare her to another, to misunderstand her as an undeveloped person. If you really wish to be with her, you should behave as a gentleman. Actually there are several moments that she hopes your childish behavior. If you are being loving and affectionate without smothering her, she won’t avoid your feelings toward her.
3. If you hesitate to spend money for her
If you want to impress her, give sincere compliments and gifts that are reasonable and thoughtful, it doesn’t need to be expensive, just considerate who she is and her likes.
“The way to a woman’s heart is through an unexpected gift at an unexpected time” – Sean Connery-
It’s not actual gift that counts; it’s the gesture. A gift shows that you’ve taken time to think about her, it makes her so happy. If she realizes that you don’t like to spend money for her, she feels pitiable about herself. You may don’t have much money or else you may save some money for your future, but if you really love her, you make an effort to impress her through little things. She just expects a special place in your life, she likes to be appreciated, and she loves when you make an effort to make her happy. Once she feels that she’s not valuable to you, she could leave you for another without any hesitate.
4. If you ignore her while hanging out with friends
“Don’t ignore her in front of your friends”, this is an important point. If your girlfriend hanging out with you and your buddies, or even if you are hanging out in a group surrounding bye all of your friends, you should still pay attention to her and let her know that she’s important to you. It creates a permanent place to you in her heart. Every girl likes to spend a quality time with the boyfriend, to be with the boyfriend as much as she wants. Especially girls should understand that there will be things a boy prefers to do alone, such as hanging out with friends, watching sports and much more. Every time you get a chance to be with your friends without her, she wishes to have a little attention from you, such as a single text or a phone call; but she never speaks up about it. She notices the difference of your behavior while hanging out with your friends. It’s a bad sign which could guide her to the breakup of a relationship.
5. If you lie over little things
You may habitually tell lies to her; she’s almost done with this behavior for sure.
If a boyfriend cheats and lies, it’s not a good relationship to be in and it’s her choice to make a decision about where to head next. When she finds out that she has been lied to, it’s best to just breakup rather than spreading rumors or seek revenge. Actually a girl doesn’t want to be with a boy who changes stories all the time, breaks his promises, gives inconsistent details, takes advantages from her and plays with her feelings. One of the most honorable character traits a person can develop is the ability to be loyal. If you are a failure in this subject, her desire should be to get rid of your fake lifestyle. A faithful girlfriend always seeks for honesty in you rather than your mockeries.
Beyond these reasons, there could be more and more which cause to lose her. This article may relate to some of you, and it will help you to avoid your bad behavior. Boys, Think about you! It’s time to change your bad behavior. Girls, it’s time to speak up about his weaknesses; nobody is perfect.
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