5 Sh*ts You Stop Giving When You’re a Grown Human

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By: Ransi Samarasinghe

When you come to that level in your life where you don’t give a shit about the most of things such as stupid ass-people, selfish buggers, haters and etc. You always prefer to have a small circle of people where you can share everything without any embarrassment or hesitation, and at the same time you choose  people who really care and help to be the best out of yourself while being real you. Sometimes if you cannot find any you prefer to be alone rather than giving a shit about anything.

Are you to that point in your life? Have you been lucky enough to have reached the maximum status of having no more shits to give? If so, the you’ll know these 5 shits you stop giving to be true.

1. You stop giving a shit about what others think and say…

There was a time that all of us thought others opinions matter, but at this level of life, you probably don’t give a shit about others’ opinions. You realise that it’s such an idiotic idea to let others dictate your life and ruin your maintained decency and standard what they secretly are desirous to own. You realise that their opinion never help you to get out of your negativity, it’s making you demotivated and dissatisfied about yourself. At this level you just ignore them and be as you prefer while enjoying the life to the core.

2. You stop giving a shit about your ex or exes…

You perceive you have moved on for reason and now it’s all over. UH! So what??? People love, and if it’s not for them, should move on. Why?????? Living alone or living with the right person is better rather than stick into an asshole who made you feel awful about own-self. Now it’s for you to ignore and stop giving a shit about the past and past relationships. You know it’s over and watering to a dead flower doesn’t work.

3. You stop giving a shit about your mistakes…

You realise that your inaccuracies cannot define you and those are the ones that made you stronger and let you go in the right path. You always know that you can learn a lot from your mistakes rather than thinking about that situation which you cannot change or erase from your life. Those mistakes are not holding you back or judge or ruin your life instead of that they made you who you are today, approximately you are grateful for each and every mistake you’ve done through out your life.

4. You stop giving a shit about social media…

Actually this the best era of your life when you realise that you don’t care about the social media life anymore. “Blocking”, “unfriending”, “liking”, “status uploading” and etc. are just some features, not something you really give a shit about. You realise all these things are not your real life, and these are just to show off unknown people that you’re being well. Well!!! What’s purpose of showing off your stuff you strangers or people who really don’t care????? In other words, you have no shits to give on this font.

5. You stop giving a shit about not giving a shit…

You are the creator of your destiny; no one, nothing can define you as long as you’re confident with who you are today. Now you are in that level of your life that you don’t give a shit about not giving a shit. you choose your battles, you choose your life and that’s it…. you know what it’s being a real human being, how it feels and how it goes. Oh yeah!!! you won ?